IF

IF
I want to take another look at the word (IF)
It can mean so many things like "If I only had, had not, did, did not, said, Not said, went, not went.
If only.........
If He...
If she.......
If they......
there are so many, and it always comes down to something else happening instead of what did.... I wonder though, has anyone inculding myself realy thought about.... IF things had turned out different would we be where we are now, the person we are now, have the children we have now...................

UNDERSTAND what we do NOW??????????????